anyone else want to add their two cents?

Mom insists that I try on a blazer.

Mom: You're fat! You should fast!
A.: [Shrug]
Mom: I fit into that not ten years ago.
A.: [Shrug]

***
later

Mom's friend: You know what it is? Your face is rounder. There's more stuff around your face.
Mom: Not just around her face!
Mom's friend: Yeah. You've gotten more solid. Not that there's anything wrong with that.